Talking Before It’s Too Late
Age-Based Conversation Scripts for Drugs, Alcohol, Screens & Peer Pressure
Why Early Conversations Matter
Prevention doesn’t begin with rules.
It begins with relationship.
Children are more likely to resist peer pressure, question risky behavior, and seek help when difficult conversations have already been normalized at home.
The goal isn’t one intense talk.
It’s calm, repeated dialogue over time.
When conversations happen in a regulated, non-judgmental environment, the developing brain stays open. When a child feels threatened or shamed, the brain shifts into defense mode — and learning shuts down.
This guide is designed to help parents:
• Start conversations earlier
• Reduce defensiveness
• Build trust over time
• Strengthen decision-making before crisis
What This Guide Includes
Inside you’ll find:
• Age-specific scripts for 8–10, 11–14, and 15+
• Brain-based notes for each developmental stage
• Tips to reduce shutdown and resistance
• Gentle ways to practice peer-pressure resilience
These are not lectures.
They are conversation openers.
Who This Is For
• Parents who want to start early
• Families navigating digital influence and peer pressure
• Caregivers wanting calmer, more productive dialogue
• Families rebuilding trust in early recovery
This guide supports prevention first — before escalation.
Conversations are strongest when they’re supported by clear structure and predictable expectations at home.